Most men have been physically or emotionally abused by women. They are more likely to be hurt by women then injured in any other way. But due to the mindset of influential people this fact is ignored and seldom discussed in the media. A victimized male who registers a complaint is called a wimp and is treated with disrespect. A man is supposed to stand his ground and be in a more powerful position than a woman but this has proven to be impossible. Women have obtained so much power that most men have become their slaves.
The most common method used by women to abuse a man a man is by enslaving him. They do this best by having his child. He is forced by law to support that child or go to prison. In most cases the man chooses to live with the women and tries to become a good father and provider. If the man does not meet her expectations she will punish him severely. Many men have been beaten with weapons and are constantly being verbally abused. A man has little choice but to accept that punishment and try to meet her demands. In most cases he cannot afford to leave because he has the legal responsibility to continue supporting her and the child.
The free dinner obtained by single women paid for by lonely men is the most popular form of abuse. Many women use dating services and personal advertisements for the purpose of getting a free full course dinner in an expensive restaurant. They are called: “Dinner Hookers” by men who have dated them. I have heard women comparing notes about the way they have bilked men out of everything from jewelry to expensive vacations. They laugh and are proud of their accomplishments. The victim of this type of abuse is usually an honest and lonely man that is trying to make a romantic connection. The predator salivates at a naïve mans vulnerability and does everything in her power to empty his pockets. Not all women should be condemned for the faults of the greedy ones. There are good women available. Also there is nothing wrong with a man picking up the tab for a sincere woman, but not for a woman that is interested in nothing but a free ride.
There are many that defend the cunning, shrewd, and selfish woman. They say that nature designed her to be that way so she can provide for her children. But the main goal of the average women is her pleasure and security. She is forced by the law to feed, clothe, and educate her children. Some are only interested in drugs and alcohol or desert their families and are unfit mothers. They waste money needed for the children on fancy clothing and expensive cosmetics. An honest and reliable husband that objects to such wanton behavior will often be physically abused by this kind of woman and if he complains to anyone about his treatment he will be called a wimp.
The only defense a man has against an abusive woman is by keeping his distance. The law and public opinion are on her side. A women’s word is believed no matter what her background is. She can abuse you in any way she desires and get away with it. Nobody will believe your side of the story. A woman can get caught cheating on her husband and little is said, but if a man gets caught he will never hear the end of it. If a man forgets to get a birthday gift for his women all hell will break loose. A mans birthday is celebrated by a fifty cent card if he is lucky. The restaurants are packed on mother’s day and empty on father’s day. If a man wants to stay home and watch a ball game on his day off he is called a couch potato. His love making is criticized as being too cold or too hot. He is sure to develop an inferiority complex. These are only a few of the ways men are being abused by women.
There is no advantage for a man to have children. Life is full of a million other things to do. Men have a right to devote as much time as they likes in the pursuit of pleasure. The company of women is one of those pleasures but it can also become a painful experience. But there are ways to help you get the most out of your relationships and avoid the pain. Getting a vasectomy is one of them. It will guarantee that you will remain childless. The procedure only takes thirty minutes. After a vasectomy, a man still has erections and ejaculates. The amount of fluid in his ejaculations is not different, except there is no sperm. The fluid looks and smells the same. A man's hormones, beard, and voice do not change. His sex drive and ability to have sex do not change. The only change is that he cannot make a woman pregnant. No women will be able to claim that you are the father of her child and hold you hostage for child support. The money you earn will be all yours.
Men as well as women are self seeking and once you understand that you will less likely be a victim of abuse. Never give more than you get in a relationship because your kindness will be understood as weakness or naivety. Always remember that you are both entitled to respect. If you don’t get any it is time to break off. Self acceptance is the greatest defense against a partner that tries to degrade or humiliate you. If you are not comfortable with yourself you will be open for abuse and you will get it. A good relationship is always possible and if you get one hold on tight.
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