A real woman is a woman who knows what she needs and does not live in her mans shadow. A woman needs a close female friend; it should be a friend of her own choosing. Not only the friends that can be socially compatible with her spouse or boyfriend. Personal friends are not the same as mutual ones. If a man stands in the way of a woman having a close female friend he is tearing her apart and preventing her from making a connection that is necessary for her happiness. Women are more psychologically compatible with one another than they are with men and she needs a woman as a friend.
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A man in a relationship is on guard against anyone interfering with the psychological control he has over his woman’s mind. .He imagines that he totally loved and refuses to share that love. If another woman comes into the couple’s life as a friend he must approve of her and find her not threatening to his self esteem. This narrows down the possibility of a woman picking a friend of her own choice.
Women share a way of life that men can never understand. They have a sense of beauty and are driven to explore it. The finest restaurants and resorts would be empty if women didn’t desire to be there. Museums and concerts would close down if women were absent. Ninety percent of designer clothing is manufactured for women’s selective tastes. The majority of students taking higher education courses are females. Even the conversation that takes place between women is of a higher quality. Men have a narrower outlook on life. They are basically concerned with sex, food and spectator sports. The only reason they bother to get a job is to have those three things. It would appear that men and women came from a different universe. But they are hooked together for unexplained reasons.
Women never realize how much they need one another until they are deprived of having a close female friend. This happens when they become involved with a man. They find that even the most perfect man has something missing. The missing quality can only be supplied by a woman friend. Many women try to replace that missing quality by searching for another man. But a man is not a woman and could never replace one.
A flexible couple would understand the dynamics of their relationship and let nature take its course. He should let her choose as many female friends as she finds necessary. In no way should he interfere with her choices. She in turn should let him have his male pals. If their relationship is a good one it will survive. There must have been a good reason for them both to be together and it should still be there despite added friends.
A man might find that his woman prefers the company of her girlfriends. This is bound to happen since females have more in common. But he should not take it to heart and brood over it. He is still able to make love to her and watch his ball games. The refrigerator is stacked with food and he is never hungry. His life is even better without her annoying him with complaints. Now that she is out with her lady friends he can buy tickets and go to football games as often as he likes. Their sex life has improved since she has become a happier person. They make love almost every evening. There is no need for him to have a new woman because he has the best. He has joined a baseball team that meets a few times a week and his woman never complains about his absence. Life is good for them both and they have earned it.
A tight knit couple is a suffocating one. A man and woman that won’t give each other enough space will produce an unhappy couple. A man and woman that are always together is a foundation that must crumble. If you put a dog and cat in a sack they will struggle to get out and go their own ways. They are different and incompatible. Men and women should make contact but only on mutually agreeable terms. They should come to the table with something to offer, but never their freedom.
A man needs a woman for sex and an ego booster. His ideal is an affordable trophy woman. If you observe the behavior of rich and powerful men you will come to no other conclusion. A poor and homely man is no different, he does the best he can and claims that inner values are more important. But if he wins a lottery those inner values disappear and he looks for and finds a trophy woman.
A woman with a good job rarely needs a man for anything but a few extra bucks and social approval. But even if she finds an acceptable guy there will be something missing, and that is women friends. Real women need women as friends and those men that stand in the way of their friendships will be shoved aside. Men must stop thinking that a woman’s needs are fulfilled in a bedroom. A woman is many times more complex than a man. Her needs are varied. Men will have a better chance of keeping their relationship together if they give a woman space. But mans stubborn ego is a hurdle that men will have to overcome. Until they do there won’t be a comfortable relationship between men and women.
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